Happy marriage and unhappy marriage

A house girl who lived in Hokkaido, Wang Ye (net name), welcomed her newlywed on October 6. Her husband, like her, was also an otaku. She invited a friend from all over Japan who had met her common hobbies and held a “Comiket-like wedding.” .

Since it is a wedding like Comiket, there are otaku features everywhere. The intention of the bride and groom, starting from the wedding invitation, is reflected. Although the invitations to friends and relatives in the real world are ordinary invitations, the envelopes sent to the housemates are copied into the envelopes of the SSR idols in the mobile game “Idol Master Cinderella Starlight Stage”. .

And the invitation inside, imitates the interface style of the game “Splatoon”. .

And for those friends who have been exhibiting at Comic Market, they also prepared a set of invitations. The envelope resembles the notice of the Comiket booth selection result, so that the friends received a shock. .

Open the invitation, there is also a “Booth Configuration Map” – that is, the seat map of the guests attending the wedding. The bride and groom’s family are each sitting in the exhibition area of the “Groom Center” and “Bride Center”, while the otaku friends are placed in the “Groom Center” and “Bride Center” sections. In addition, there are also special places for friends in various fields such as board games, comics, novels, photography, and reviews. .

Since many of the friends came from outside Hokkaido, they also thoughtfully stated some unique customs of the local wedding in the invitation, as well as the recommended stores and places of interest for the “expedition” friends. .

It’s not hard to imagine that the scenery on the wedding day is even more lively. .

The host of the wedding is the groom’s high school classmate and board game, and the seiyuu Ito Festival. This is enough to make the otaku of the whole world jealous. .

The nameplate on the banquet is not the real name of the friend, but the name of the net. Because the seats are free, the bride and groom have also produced the famous brand of the friend’s life-selling character – can eat wine with Roy Mastang, Haiye Iruka, Adachi, and Ito Shino, probably only once in a lifetime. Experienced. .

The music used in the wedding is a song that is automatically drawn and played. The bride and groom stepped on the “Skull” in “Splatoon” and cut the wedding cake with a chainsaw. The lights went out, and the friends on the banquet waved the light sticks and the aid cards to send blessings to the newlyweds. .

In the tour to the toast of each wine table, the bride was also stuffed with a mobile phone, asking her to draw cards for the “Fate/Grand Order” players. The joy of the newlyweds is really a small feat. The bride who does not play “FGO” has released Kong Ming and Jack at the same time in ten consecutive years. It is true that the player brought Matsusaka beef as a new wedding. .

And at the end of the second session of the “Idol Master Cinderella Girl Starlight Stage” draw card at the end of the card, she pumped the card for herself, but also used a free single coupon to draw a limited SSR. .

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Although I myself probably have no chance, but there is no one in the country to do such a wedding, by the way also help me out a few (SSR). .


However, the world’s otaku house woman is so much, can be as happy as the bride and groom, but how many? .

Yesterday, a house girl said on the blog that she had to give up her creative activities because of her husband’s pressure. .

イコ is a housewife who raises a pair of 5-year-old twin daughters at home. She was not originally engaged in creation. However, after becoming a mother, she was exposed to the world of secondary creation and fandom, and opened a Twitter account to publish “My Hero Academy” on Pixiv. .

Although her husband did not agree with his wife’s interest, at first he felt that this might be a spiritual pillar, bringing her daily housework and parenting vitality, so she also tolerated her creative activities. .

However, over time, the attitude of the husband has also changed. Whenever you make a mistake, such as not picking up the room in time, sleeping late, or going out, the husband will rebuke her “all because you are taking care of the otaku activities, and the mind is not at home.” .

For those friends who actively buy around and participate in the activities of their peers, her husband has repeatedly uttered bad words, saying that they are “neurologically sick” and “buy garbage for a piece of paper money.” This makes you very sad. .

イコ is the first birth, and a lifetime is a pair of twins, was busy with housework. When she had just given birth to a child and had not yet become an otaku, her husband had just changed jobs. Probably because the pressure is too great, the husband often tells her some unpleasant words. When she complained about the hardship of child-rearing, the husband replied to her: “If you don’t want to do it, you will go back to your mother’s house. I have to work, so the child can be stored in a special facility.” This sentence has made her unforgettable. .

Adding to being a housewife, she has no financial resources, which makes her feel guilty about her husband who is working to support her family. The relationship between husband and wife is very unequal. I have no ability to refute and convince my husband. .

And when she and her husband talked about open source and throttling, the husband replied: “I am a company employee, it is impossible to suddenly increase the annual income. Why don’t you brush the game and make time to work?” .

The housewife’s job is “open 24 hours”. When are you busy and when you are free, look at the mood of young children. If you tighten the string work all day, the physical strength can’t support it. .

And at this time, イコ reading the netizens on Twitter feels about her work, it feels like a drowning person breathes a breath of air. It was Twittered that gave her the courage to live. .

But in the eyes of the husband, all this is just a waste of time, just to play lazy, it is better to go to work to make money. .

イコ tried to refute, but the unequal relationship accumulated over a long period made her unable to defend herself and her hobbies. She had to choose to give up. .

(.https://ico-iiwake.hatenablog.com/entry/2018/10/10/051953).

Although this blog post is only her side of the word, it can’t judge who is right or wrong, but the phenomenon of blog post reaction is not new in reality. . After the

Blog post was released, it sparked a heated discussion on the web. Some people stand on the sidelines, criticizing the husband for being arrogant and unreasonable, and not understanding his wife’s hard work; others support her husband, who believes that personal interests are not fulfilled as a wife and mother. .

The cartoonist Inoue Junichi pointed out that it is wrong for housewives to consume only this idea. First of all, it is just consumption, but it can also bring income to others. The housewife’s work benefits the family more directly. Housewives have also contributed to society, and there is absolutely no need to feel that they are low-minded. .

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